why does everyone care about being mature for their age like maybe i fucking like drinking from juice boxes and eating my popcorn like a fucking lizard fight me about it
I love how girls now use “hoe” to uplift and be positive about their sexuality and sexual-ness. Like yaaas be a hoe and be great at it and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise oh yea and be safe yo
My biggest fear is that one day my kids will be crying alone to themselves at night and I wont know about it
Love her, but leave her wild.
PSA: Parents. Please do not emotionally manipulate your children.
They will grow up completely untrusting with a general sense of sadness and guilt.
Manipulation includes:
- “I just wish [something passive aggressive involving your child]”
- “You do whatever you want to do.” and then getting mad when they make the “wrong” choice
- Not believing them when they tell you something someone did or said to them, including their friends, your friends, family members, or even you
- Doing something shitty and then pretending you didn’t in hopes they’ll forget?
- Getting upset when they open up to you. About anything. Even if it’s something angering or disappointing. Don’t show them it’s dangerous or counterproductive to talk to you.
- Making them feel bad for the friends/significant others they choose, career path (or lack thereof), school choice (or lack thereof), gender/sexuality (or lack thereof) literally anything that either they didn’t choose or that they would be miserable without
- Do NOT EVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES pressure them to talk to you about personal things.
- Kids do not owe their parents anything. They did not choose to be born. You chose to get pregnant/chose to carry to term/chose to raise a baby (even if you didn’t choose all of these things, you at least chose one) under the assumption that you would love this child no matter what.
can I add:
if your child is part of an organized group of other children, do not constantly talk about a different child and how cool/fun/talented they are
do not belittle your child for struggling with something, even if they are good at many other things
do not reference past mistakes your child has made unless it is directly relevant to a mistake that they could be prevented from making at the current time
I’m stuck between wanting:
1. A long lasting relationship with my soulmate who supports me and protects me and is my partner and we are completely bad ass together and in love
2. Wanting to have casual sex and rip out the heart of everyone person I meet
3. Being independent and having a loyal dog while I’m married to my career
It scares me how accurate this is.
To you,
She’s not average.
She’s moody. Grouchy. Happy. Loving. Indecisive and Eager. She’s kind hearted.
She has lonely nights. Reassure her that you are there, even if she refuses to talk to you. She will come back in the morning.
Sometimes she distances herself, let her have her space then pull her closer. Don’t you ever let her go.
Her nose gets cold easily. Stay warm, you never know when she will need the crease in your neck to keep it from getting too chilly.
She’s insecure sometimes. Tell her how she can take your breathe away. Tell her she’s flawless with her hair pulled up and sweat pants on.
When you lay with her and you are holding her, pull her closer. Always pull her closer.
If you rub her arm make sure it’s the bottom half because she’s ticklish on top.
Don’t touch her ear. In any circumstance. She hates it.
You will annoy her. Just stop talking and listen instead. Sometimes she just likes to be heard.
The perfect cure to a bad morning is chocolate, an icee, or Starbucks. And give her one of your hoodies. She likes to sleep in them.
You will love her mom. They’re just alike. If she’s like her in the future you’re one lucky son of a bitch.
She drinks. Drink with her. But don’t get drunk because you need to be the one who helps her into bed and makes sure she’s fully covered. Then plays with her hair until she falls asleep.
If you think she’s beautiful without makeup, just wait till you see her sleepy eyes in the morning.
Never fail to make her laugh. Anything you can think of. If you want to see happiness it’s her when she laughs. It’s contagious and you’ll fall more in love every time.
If she ever feels unwanted you aren’t doing your job right.
When she looks at you with those big hazel eyes, and it kills you a little bit inside, don’t you dare look away. If she leaves, your biggest regret will be not looking at them long enough.
Sometimes home isn’t 4 walls,
It’s 2 eyes and a heartbeat
